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My diagnosis and experience at Revere Healthcare

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Living with Metastasized Breast Cancer – Changing your Mindset

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Attitude * Acceptance * Gratitude
MBC Triple Positive since 2016

I'm choosing to taking a wee break from social

I'm choosing to taking a

wee break from

social media

life is perfect -

I'm just practicing

practicing living in the moment
less distractioms

Connect with you soon!
Shari

#socialmedia
#breather
#growthmindset
#cancerpatient

even the dogs Are thrilled to unite after lockdow

even the dogs

Are thrilled to unite after lockdown
#doglife #postlockdown #dogparklife
#friends

gratitude & love two tender strong woman they i

gratitude & love

two tender strong woman

they influence my life every day

JoAnn & Jean

Each have individual powers that teach me the good in all situations

Their accomplishments are a source that inspire me to keep raising my personal goals higher.

+ 50 plus years of marriage to their soulmates.

with

7 amazing individuals blessed to reach out to them as “mom”

As wives and mothers their work ethic is nonstop. Their family businesses not just thrive but have always relied on their personal knowledge, consistency and touch.
Both ladies are vital in the financial situations of their families. Each woman completes the jigsaw puzzle that is necessary to find success as a wife and mother.

Remembering time in the kitchen preparing family meals. JoAnn from Utah and Jean Southern California.

They share a similar cooking style. When I help in Jean’s kitchen she has the same mixing bowls and kitchen gadgets; and often retro pieces that are part of JoAnn’s kitchen growing up.

Saturdays the Tyler family would cram in the Ram Charger at 5:30 AM and head up the canyon. A weekly occurrence was mom’s snack and lunch menu. She always has a spread ready to enjoy. The prep time by mom was impressive. Her breadsticks were famous and of coarse from scratch.

Driving across the country when they were small. Station wagon with no seatbelts. Disneyland is a staple. Days at the beach often. Birthday traditions important. Choose your favorite meal and traditional birthday cake. Candles, confetti added to the family table. I always think back on experiencing this for the first time when I was 45. It wasn’t my birthday dinner that day. I enjoy their love and family tradition. Jean loves creating memories for her family and friends.

As I ponder and miss each woman the tears freely pour.

I think of them often.
They have both moved on from this life

But I talk to them often and they sit next to me

Warmth and Love
Shari

Photo 2019 weekend in Montreal

#mothersday
#love
#mom
#family

door to door 🚪 is 30 minutes 🚘 stopping

door to door 🚪

is 30 minutes 🚘

stopping to see dad is always a part of the plan. 🛑

It doesn’t need to be sitting at his house for hours.

Actually, those short visits are best.

Long enough, but don’t overstay the visit.

Older parents

My dad is an interesting and loving individual.

But if he is in a mood

Beware

He had earned the right?

Well yes, he definitely has

A good man that his daughter adores

#connect
#connection
#visitfamily
#grandparent
#family
#positive
#positivevibes

bathroom remodel 👏 👏 👏 I’m excited a

bathroom remodel

👏 👏 👏

I’m excited and after the remodel we conquered in 2020...

This time I am turning the project over to someone else.

I absolutely love and enjoy the entire process.

That being said, constant medical
treatment has helped me to pick and choose my hands on projects.

this time I am not playing general contractor and I have the perfect person who has been a sounding board for all of the renovations

She knows me well and my style

And importantly my price points

I’ve learned so much this past year regarding the remodel and my own likes and dislikes.

I enjoy design and have found my own esthetics.

Change your routine and your daily routine and life happens.

Thank you world pandemic, job loss, and change.

Life happens

Learn to take every step and breath

Merci
Shari

#bathroomrenovation
#home

scheduled self care I choose massage anything I

scheduled self care

I choose massage

anything I can add to help my circulation of blood and oxygen.

I’m a fan and count me in

renewing and repairing the cells are most important.

It is always a beautiful and healing experience

If you need a massage & spa try them out
@the_sanctuary_utah

What type of massage do you enjoy?
Do you have a favorite?

#massage
#local
#hebervalley
#smallbusiness
#breastcancerawareness

Celebrating the perfection today Happy 3rd Birth

Celebrating

the perfection today

Happy 3rd Birthday 🎂

to this big hug of a pup

@nodessafarms
#birthday
#celebrate
#dog

Have you noticed #1111 It means your guides & an

Have you noticed

#1111

It means your guides & angels are we you.

And it is a powerful time to think about your intentions.

I believe.

Do you?

** another morning spent with my oncologist.

Friday has rolled around again

It's been a fun and productive week.

Oh, I I'm including some ideas for my
backyard water feature.

These are each a bit spendy. 💰Ugh
So I haven't pulled the trigger yet.

I'm pondering on this one.

Do you have a fountain?

What are your tips?

Sending joy for an amazing weekend!
Shari

#shareyourvulnerability
#boldandbrave
#breastcancer
#cancer
#joy
#mindfull
#positivite
#optimistic
#choosejoy
#metavivor
#thisismbc
#empoweringwomen
#fountain
#waterfeature
#noise
#homeprojects

A “red-letter” day Did you watch, Game of Thr

A “red-letter” day

Did you watch, Game of Thrones?

The episode; “The Red Wedding”

Shocking as hell!
And so poignant in the GOF
story line.

topic moving on

** Five years goes by quick

I was a bit dumbfounded, and I certainly was then.

My routine mammogram was shocking and shook me into the reality of a death sentence

This, is what late staged patients face.

Stage four - you will never be stage 5 or 6

4️⃣ is where you will always be.

Four is the final stage.

Cancer has now comprised your entire system.

And what you choose to do with this information is a personal choice

*conventional cancer treatment?

*moving on and not choosing a pharmaceutical intervention.

daily choices

But then isn't this fitting with what shows up in life?

What would you personally choose?

I always appreciate your love & support

Shari

#adventure
#shareyourssparkel
#shareyourvulnerability
#boldandbrave
#breastcancer
#cancer
#joy
#mindfull
#positivite
#optimistic
#glasshalffull
#choosejoy
#thriver
#metavivor
#thisismbc
#stage4needsmore
#empoweringwomen

I need a daily reminder All experts start out as

I need a daily reminder

All experts start out as beginners,
but then we seem to forget
that when we start out
we are just beginners ourselves.

I'm sharing this with you because all that often; I hear people being hard on themselves.

and fallen into this hole as well.

We all do.

And we all have a chance to
learn, stretch, and grow.

look closer at your thoughts and actions

What are you learning today?

#love
#breastcancer
#dontignorestageiv
#cancerwarrior
#livingwithcancer
#positivevibes
#womensupportingwomen
#gratitutde
#METneedsmore
#bcrf
#bcrfcure
#dreambig
#motivation
#personalgrowth
#selflove

A quick view of an estate sale I love the vinta

A quick view

of an estate sale

I love the vintage style
#queenanne
#oldhomelove

Worth a look

We enjoyed lunch and a visit with three of the eight kiddos.

Ok, they are adults

but will always be my boyz

Fun day

I am thankful for all that is Enjoying the day T

I am thankful for all that is

Enjoying the day

The sun peaking through the spring snowstorm

I love the sun

The warmth on my face

Thought I’d share. Just because

My favorite go to drink.

It’s called a refresher-

A mixture of #Fresca and grapefruit juice

low call and yummy

&

my Dexamethasone update

I’m still not 100%

and finally upped my dose to find my way.

I’m working on my occasional hunger from steroids.

Oh how I despise that.

Smiling through

How about you?

Give me your fun updates and weekend plans.

blessings headed your way,
Shari

#love
#breastcancer
#dontignorestageiv
#cancerwarrior
#livingwithcancer
#positivevibes
#womensupportingwomen
#gratitutde
#METneedsmore
#bcrf
#bcrfcure
#writeyourstory
#bossbabes
#dreambig
#motivation
#personalgrowth
#selflove

“One Fine Day” Such a cute movie worth the wa

“One Fine Day”

Such a cute movie
worth the watch
or rewatch

George & Michelle

who is older by three years?

Day 2 of my “Dex” increase
2mg to 4mg

yep I’ve got this...

I’m doing well and am enjoying the day.

How about you?
#dailylife

Note to self... Taking care of yourself is product

Note to self... Taking care of yourself is productive. #selfcare

spring has sprung

spring has sprung

Dripping along the day

Dripping along the day

See you soon for #2

See you soon for #2

Some days you just need a ride in the sun ☀️

Some days you just need
a ride in the sun ☀️

In other news
check out Fred’s new bench

Just right for Gus to
have his feeding station
hidden away as well.

Oh how I love those two furry bums.

Thanks Zig, I needed that reminder. “You cannot

Thanks Zig,
I needed that reminder.

“You cannot tailor make your situation in life, but you can tailor make your attitudes to fit those situations.” Zig Ziglar

I’m off of
steroid/Dexamethasone for the brain swelling as of January 4th.

I weaned off slowly.
It’s a process

And I felt “shitty” for a few weeks.

I even got a negative COVID-19 test,
just to make sure; because I was not feeling like myself.

And then suddenly without warning - surprise — I guess I turned the corner.

I’m crossing my fingers that the “dex” is finally out of my system.

My energy is much better and
my achy body improved.

Phew

I am noticing the swelling start to reduce.

I’m psyched

I am loving a double chin instead of a triple.

Cheers to life saving medical treatments
And their side effects.

I can always work on self love.
How about you?

Shari

#springtime
#zen
#cancerpatient
#friend
#springfever
#herceptin
#oncology
#spirit
#mood
#love
#support
#utah
#storm
#friendship
#positivity
#affirmatiom
#garden
#flower
#joy
#gratitude
#grateful
#spring
#french
#antique

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